Tell everyone you meet that you’re going to be running a race… This is the advice that I read in a running magazine for people that are setting a goal to run a race. OK- so I start telling every poor soul that sits next to me for longer than 30-seconds that I am planning on running the Disney Half-Marathon in January 2009. The conversation usually goes like this: “Hi. Can I have a medium iced-coffee please? Wow- this iced coffee sure will taste good after I’m done RUNNING A HALF-MARATHON!!!” (I’m very subtle…) “Oh wow- you’re running 26 miles? That’s amazing!” “Um… actually it’s only the half-marathon. 13 miles not 26. But you see, I don’t run. At all. So 13 is like 26 in my world.” “Oh. Well, I guess that’s good too…” Not quite the “go-get-em” speech I was looking for. Hmm? So, why in the world did they give out this advice to tell so many people if it’s not to boost your ego? And then it happened… I found out that I have a lot of nosy people in my life. They were everywhere. Family and friends would ask me if I’ve given up yet (they know me a little too well…); My neighbors would leave me inspirational notes in my mailbox; these same neighbors also cheer when they see me run by or they would drive behind me when I’m getting a little slow to say “Move it! You can go faster!” They also ask me whenever we get together: “So, how’s the running going? Are you making it any further?” Knowing that I have these eyes watching and questions coming really motivates me (or shames me- whichever way you want to look at it…) to keep running when I want to stop. These people are really helping me with my overall progress. Usually, that’s going pretty well and everyone’s been really encouraging. But, it’s the day-to-day routine of getting out of bed, hitting the pavement, and running the miles that is so easy to let slip. That’s where my nosy co-worker comes in. Usually, before I have filled up my first cup of coffee, I hear a voice coming over my cubicle: “So, Charlotte, how many miles did you run today?”… I HATE it when I have to throw back excuses for reasons I didn’t make my morning run, or why I cut it short, or why I ended up walking through part of the run. I hate it so much that it usually is enough to motivate me to actually run just so I can shout back over my cubicle: “4 miles today…” Now, I’ll be honest- if I haven’t run, I’m usually shooting the nosy-coworker dirty looks when he asks in the morning. But, knowing that question is going to hit me everyday is half the reason I have stayed on my training schedule. So, I’d like to take a moment to say “THANK YOU” to all you nosy people in my life. Thank you for ignoring all my dirty looks and continuing to keep me on track. And, for all you “nosy” people reading this (thanks to you too- knowing that somebody out there might actually be reading this really helps me stay committed!) -no, I still haven’t broken the 4- mile mark. It has been brought to my attention that even if I add a mile per month to my run, I will still be short by race time… Oh Great. So, it’s clearly time to step out of my comfort zone and push myself a little more. I have a couple of races scheduled soon so just stay tuned next week to see if I’m able to cross the finish line in one piece!
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